How many times will I tell you, “Don’t rush home after work every day. Don’t just pray for a life partner. Don’t flash out of church – leave that haste to those attending to little ones.”

Single man, FIND your good thing. It’s not in your kitchen – and may not be in your place of work. Meet the girls. Stop being stingy. Invite them for dinner. Real men take initiative.

Single lady, be where you can be found. Stop hiding in your bedroom. Strategically position yourself in the market. We don’t buy the fruits in the farm. We buy the ones in the market.

Be social. Loneliness depresses the mind. Social support improves our immune system. Socializing improves our cognitive skills. And people with strong social networks tend to live longer.